Morals

Here's the bottom line:

1) He's choosing to go home to her every night, regardless of whether it's because of the kids or not, HE IS NOT GOING TO CHOOSE YOU OVER HIS WIFE AND KIDS, for whatever reason. He would have by now anyway.
2) On top of that, he's claiming to be devoutly religious and plays a major role in his church... if he gets caught in what he's doing, he looks like an even bigger scumbag in the public eye. He's no better than a fucking skeazy politician.
3) HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. IF he did, he wouldn't cheapen you in this way by inviting you out and paying for everything. What does that sound like to you?
4) No matter what he tells you, he really doesn't mean a word of what he says. It's the 21st century, if he really wanted to be with you he could... regardless of his current situation. But is he? No, and how long has it been this way? Come the fuck on... let's be real here.

/endrant